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Really? Who actually thinks they are, or is going to admit to being a nagging wife or girlfriend? Does anybody realise that they nag? Well, first of all , What is nagging in a relationship? I personally used to think it was a word made up by men to describe any words or sentence they didn't like hearing from their partner :) But actually, it has a definition and here are a few:  According to Google 'nagging in a relationship is characterised by persistently reminding your partner to do something',  or   'persistently annoying or finding fault with someone. ' or   'to annoy someone with constant demands or complaints.  So we can sum it up as constantly reminding our partners to do something in an annoying and complaining manner rather than just as a simple polite request. What causes 'nagging'? Life is stressful, and especially once kids are in the picture there is a never-ending list of things to  do. If one partner is not pulling their weight it's v...

There are certain things a good man looks for in a woman to make him feel that she's 'the one'. A lot on the wish list are things that we ladies would desire from our man.  But then there are desires that are very different psychologically and biologically, from the male perspective. Let's look at 14 things a quality man looks for in a woman. 1. Kindness,loving nature. A good heart, kindness and compassion is a wonderful quality in a woman. These qualities are of course very important because it impacts almost everything else. A woman with this quality is more likely to be more accepting, understanding and work with her man even in bad times. 2. Confidence Men want a confident woman that believes in herself. Belief in yourself is an attractive quality. You need to know yourself and stand for what you believe in. Real men do not want a woman that's a pushover. 3. Smart A quality man wants a woman that is smart and can stimulate his brain as well as everything else! A...

 'Men are from Mars, women are from Venus' I'm sure you've heard this before. It's a saying from the title of a well known book. Men and women are certainly  different. There are deep biological and psychological differences between the sexes...more than most of us appreciate. Maybe a handbook on this would save us a lot of the heartache we go through in life trying to find our ideal mate. Some of us are lucky enough to just find that one that is perfect for us.-most of us aren't though and have to go through a lot of heartache and disappointment. So perhaps an education in understanding the opposite sex would pay off more than wading blindly through the dating jungle with our fingers crossed. Gender Roles and Pressures Guys and  girls certainly have a difference in opinion over certain things and often give the other a hard time. -A lot of that comes from not understanding the different psychological and biological differences, and the PRESSURES and expectation...

How Do You Become A Better Woman(A High Value Woman)? Strength of character is something to be admired in any individual. Having self-worth , high standards and standing by your values. Working on becoming your best 'you' constantly. A High Value Woman knows these things, and who she is.  Here are 7 of some of the characters of the High Value Woman. 1.  She knows her worth. A High Value Woman knows her worth. She sets high standards for herself and those around her. She will not settle for what goes against who she is. She treats people with respect and expects the same in return. She will not stand for maltreatment.  Being alone is better than being in a bad relationship. 2. She has a plan and direction. HVW knows what she wants in life and goes about putting a plan to  get it. She works hard towards her goals , instead of  wasting time waiting for it to happen. 3. She nourishes her body, mind and spirit. HVW is not shallow. She enriches her body, mind and spi...

First date jitters?   Going on your first date can be nerve-wracking but what you need to remember is that nobody does YOU better than you. There is only one YOU out there so that makes you pretty  unique wouldn't you agree? Love yourself for the person that you are and BE that person. Don't try to be anybody else but you. There are many good qualities about you and that will come though if you just be yourself. Don't forget if you're feeling nervous, your date is probably feeling the same, so you've got that in common already:)! You can't force anything, and shouldn't try to! Forget any previous bad dates and go in with a positive attitude. This is a fresh new story. Remember you don't have to have EVERYTHING in common to be a good match. Having some differences actually makes things interesting too. You just need to be open minded and willing to learn about the other person. Here are a few more tips to help you prepare: DO:   Dress like you made some e...

At the beginning of a new relationship it's natural to be excited and consumed by all these new wonderful feelings...but it's important to check our behaviour  and not blow things before it even gets going. There are a few things that we ladies do, unintentionally, that are simply a big turn-off for men, and sends them running for the hills.  Let's take a look at five of these mistakes: Number one-MOVING TOO FAST TOO SOON You may feel the burning desire to tell your great new catch you just met  EVERYTHING about you. Or drop everybody and everything else in your life for him ...but resist the urge to do that...here's why. First, guys respect a girl who has her own life, and is enjoying it, single or otherwise. Guys value an independent lady who can do her own things without being too clingy. This means  that he will still have time and space to do his own 'guy' things without issues. This is very important to the male species. Secondly ,  not always being availa...

What do men find attractive in women? Do you ever wonder this? Well, often it's not just the obvious physical attributes. Yes looking hot is attractive, but would you be surprised to learn that a big part of being attractive, and sexy, is actually feeling, that way too! It comes down to how you feel in your own skin. Your confidence, self esteem and the way you carry yourself. Being secure in who you are as an individual carries a lot of weight. We all know how being insecure can be a real turn off for most people, both male and female. Learn to love yourself and feel good about yourself . You can start by noting the things you appreciate about your personality and your body. Stand in front of a mirror and point out the things you like . Try to focus on these factor much more than on what you don't like. Most people have things they don't like about themselves but if you focus on the positives you'll feel a whole lot hotter. Stick photos of yourself when yo...